Why Keeping Attackers Wide Isn't Always Easy

By Become Unplayable Team· 6 August 2026· 3 min read
Why Keeping Attackers Wide Isn't Always Easy — Become Unplayable Playbook

You've seen it countless times: an opponent driving towards your child's goal. As parents, we often instinctively want them to 'stop them!' but what does that actually mean on the pitch?

It’s a common sight on a Sunday morning. An opposing player is dribbling, maybe with a bit of pace, heading towards the edge of your team's penalty area. From the touchline, it might look straightforward: just tackle them! But for a young player in the thick of it, with their heart pounding, trying to work out what the attacker is going to do next, it’s a moment packed with split-second decisions.

Every young defender wants to protect their goal, naturally. But doing that effectively means more than just kicking the ball away. It involves thinking about space, about where the danger truly lies, and sometimes, about guiding the opponent to a less threatening area on the pitch. This often means trying to 'show' them out wide, towards the touchline.

The Instinct to Go Straight for the Ball

When a child first starts playing, their focus is often entirely on the ball. If an opponent has it, the immediate thought is to win it back, often by diving in for a tackle. This is a natural, brave response. However, it can sometimes leave the middle of the pitch exposed, especially if the tackle is missed, giving the attacker a clear run towards goal or an easy pass to a teammate in a dangerous position.

Even with a teammate nearby, the instinct to engage directly with the ball can be overpowering. It’s hard to resist trying to be the hero who wins it back, even if a more patient approach might be better for the team.

Why the Middle Is "No Go" Territory

Picture the goal. Where does a shot have the best chance of going in? Usually from directly in front, or close to it. The middle of the pitch, especially as you get closer to the penalty area, offers the best angles for shooting and the best lines for passing to other attackers. This is why defenders are often encouraged to 'protect the middle'.

For a young player, understanding this isn't always obvious. They might see the attacker with the ball as the sole threat, rather than thinking about the bigger picture of where that attacker is being allowed to go, and what that opens up for their team.

The Challenge of Guiding an Attacker

So, if 'protecting the middle' is the aim, defenders often try to manipulate the attacker into moving towards the touchline. This is called 'showing them outside'. It reduces their shooting angles, makes crossing the ball harder, and generally funnels them into an area where they're less dangerous.

But this takes real communication and awareness. If your child is the first defender, they need to apply pressure but also position their body in a way that encourages the attacker to go wide, knowing a teammate is there to cover the central space. It's a subtle art, balancing pressure with intelligent positioning, and it’s something that develops with lots of practice and games.

A moment to discuss

What do you think your child would do here?

Your child is defending, and an attacker is dribbling towards the edge of their penalty area. Another one of your child's teammates is positioned centrally, a little behind them, ready to help out.

There isn't a right or wrong answer — the value is in the conversation that follows.

Common questions

Why do football coaches tell players to 'show them outside'?

'Showing them outside' means a defender tries to position their body to encourage the attacker to move towards the touchline, rather than inwards towards the goal. This reduces the attacker's options for shooting, crossing, and passing, making them less dangerous.

Is it always better for a young player to show an attacker wide?

Generally, yes, especially when an attacker is approaching the penalty area. The centre of the pitch gives attackers the best angles for shooting and passing. However, understanding when and how to do this effectively, in relation to teammates and the ball, is a complex skill that takes time to develop.

What's the difference between protecting the goal and protecting the space?

Protecting the goal is the ultimate objective, but protecting the space refers to controlling the areas on the pitch that are most dangerous to your goal, primarily the central areas. Good defending involves understanding both: stopping shots and also preventing the opposition from getting into positions where they can take those shots.

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